Waiting for Words

We were on the road a lot this week. Even more than usual. For the most part, both boys do really well in the car, but there are times that Emmett does not do so well. One of the most difficult things for us right now is the fact that Emmett is nonverbal. I realize that there are many typical 3-year-olds who say very little, but most of those children can communicate there basic needs or at least show others what they need.

We are working on using pictures or sign language, but this is still difficult because Emmett has limited fine motor skills and cognitive delays. I can normally tell what Emmett wants by asking basic questions and waiting for a clap or giggle. However, when he gets really frustrated, he just fusses or lets out a very loud, throaty cry. Whether he is hungry, thirsty, tired, or mad... we hear the same cry and it is worse when he is confined and can't crawl to who or what he wants. As you can imagine, this is great fun when we are driving down the highway with almost 2 hours ahead of us! It is a guessing game and is especially fun if I'm the only parent in the car.

It is hard not to get frustrated and believe me I DO get frustrated, but then I have to remind myself how much more frustrated Emmett must be not being able to express his needs. I'm not completely sure how much Emmett understands, but I do know that he understands quite a bit, which is why I try to be very careful about what I say to him and about him. He may not be able to talk, but that doesn't make his opinion or his needs any less important.

As we prepare for Emmett to start preschool, I pray that his teachers and caregivers are understanding and take time to figure out what he needs. Many people think that once Emmett starts walking, talking won't be too far behind. I am hopeful that this is the case and look forward to hearing his first words. In the meantime, I will enjoy his babbles and giggles and will do my best to understand what he's trying to tell me, even if he's screaming as we drive down the highway!

I can't take credit for the quote,

but I can at least take partial credit for this handsome boy!